Showing posts with label being independent. Show all posts
Showing posts with label being independent. Show all posts

Friday, 8 November 2019

Life between dating sites and matrimonial sites

I am a single 29 year old lady in Delhi. 

Well, I would like you to stop reading further and have a wild guess that what should be this write up could possibly be about?... .

Stop reading…. Look up the screen…..!

Well, could be about boyfriend, ex-love flame, too much outing, living life freely, something about urban work diaries, encounters with creepy men, matrimonial-feminism conflict… etc…

No, it is nothing like that… Just wanted to share that what an actual, real girl with an ambition and on a search of a groom could possibly think of. 

For beginning, there are many who could relate to this that we do portray that marriage is scare, I am happy single, I am enjoying my life, dating many men but in our gut we know, how much we are tired of scrolling through the profiles of prospective grooms, how much painful it is to attend the wedding of our friends, more so juniors and be happy for them. I am happy for them but it’s just that I wish I could have been at that podium wearing that beautiful bridal attire and sharing a laugh with my husband. 

What is it??? Is it because I am too independent that they get scared, or is it because I cannot open up at the very beginning…. 

Then comes these dating sites… It’s tempting and fun to talk to strangers and getting compliments about yourself. Who does not like to get pampered but then casual dating is not my thing…. I can enjoy it virtually but I only wish that I could be the girl going on blind dates with no hope seeing that person in the future and finish it with just a coffee and a kiss (or whatever).

What to do? How to stop this situation and get out of this void (which even I don’t understand)?